9/19/12

Trick yourself into saving! ( TITLE OF THIS MADE ME SAVE THE INFORMATION WHICH I HAVE YET TO READ :))

By Lauren Fernandez for Yahoo! Southeast AsiaWe’ve all been there before—it’s the 14th or the 29th of the month, the day before payday and all we have to show for ourselves is about fifty bucks in our wallet, and nothing else in the bank. It’s enough to make you wonder if you’re working just to make you survive going to work.

Put an end to this butas na bulsa syndrome by tricking yourself into saving, regardless of your salary pay scale. Essential household expenses like rent, utilities, and groceries are definitely necessary, but anything outside of this is often unnecessary. And these expenses—such as going out and shopping too often—though deceptively minimal at first, can all add up to a huge amount in the long run.

Ending your bad spending habits can be as easy as doing minor lifestyle changes. Here are seven little ways to help you save big in the long run.

1. Squirrel away come payday.
Instead of hitting the nearest department store to celebrate payday, hit a separate savings account. “On payday itself, before I get a chance to shop, I immediately withdraw a few thousand bucks and put it into another account which I don’t touch,” says Joanne Enriquez, a mother, art director, and book designer. Follow suit and make it a habit to set aside at least one fourth of your salary and deposit it in a passbook-style account, so you can’t access it so easily.

2. At supermarkets, shop below eye level.
“All the premium and pricier brands are all placed at eye-level on supermarket shelves,” reveals Enriquez. “So I pick the products that are below or above those items, as they cost less. Household basics like sponges, detergent, and dishwashing liquid do the same job, anyway!”
 
3. Walk, don’t ride.
The next time you have to go to a nearby restaurant at lunch, or if the bus and FX terminal is less than a kilometer away from your subdivision, forego the taxi or tricycle ride, and walk instead to your destination. By nixing your lunchtime taxi, you’ll save at least P1,600 a month, and P19,200 a year. And by not riding a tricycle, you’ll save about P784 a month, or P9,408 a year. Plus, you’ll be healthier—and slimmer, too.

4. Shop your closet.
Before you buy another dress for a party, check your closet first. Always look at your wardrobe with a fresh eye, and spend your weekends coming up with new pairings using your existing clothes. You can also log on to fashion blogs and websites to get ideas on how to dress. A new outfit including shoes may cost you P5,000, an “old-new” outfit from your closet, zero.

Read: How to budget when you're broke
5. Make going out extra-special.
Meaning, you’ll only go out on extra-special occasions. “I used to go drinking or do videoke with my cousins every Saturday, without fail, and that used to cost us at least P1,500 per person,” Dino Gramonte, an IT specialist, recounts. “Now we only go out when we’re celebrating someone’s birthday, or for a despedida. That saves me about P6,000 a month.”


6. Forego the fancy drinks.
If you always order a fruit shake at lunch, and if you grab a tall mocha latte on your way to work, this may be setting you back at least P150 a day, or a whopping P3,000 a month! A fancy drink is always an unnecessary expense—and it may be adding unnecessary calories as well. “I bring my own thermos of home-brewed coffee to work,” says Enriquez, who admits she can’t get through the day without a coffee fix. “If it gets cold, I just transfer it to a mug and microwave it!” Or just ask the waiter for plain, free, H2O.

Read: Build a better budget in 6 months
7. When you think of buying a bag, think of buying a house.
This may sound strange at first, but this is just a play on reverse psychology. The next time you’re itching to buy a new cellphone or “it” bag even if you don’t need it, convert the unit price of your impulse buy into the big-ticket investment you’re dreaming of. Just imagine: 14 fancy cellphones, or 11 designer bags equals P350,000—often the cost of a nice secondhand car, or the minimum deposit needed to purchase a small condo unit.

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Rules of Investment

1. Thou Shalt Set Clear Goals. If you don't have a purpose or a set of clear goals to guide your investment strategy, don't invest. This sounds harsh, but there are so many types, styles and flavors of investing that, without a particular destination, you will be lost at sea. (Photo: Thinkstock)...

2. Thou Shalt Put Thy Financial House in Order. To become a successful investor, you have to make sure that your personal finances are in order first. Investing without a purpose is bad, but investing when you have high-interest debt is much worse. If you are drowning in overdue bills and credit card payments that you can't meet, take care of those more serious problems before getting too deep into investing. (Photo: Thinkstock)
 
Order. To become a successful investor, you have to make sure that your personal finances are in order first. Investing without a purpose is bad, but investing when you have high-interest debt is much worse. If you are drowning in overdue bills and credit card payments that you can't meet, take care of those more serious problems before getting too deep into investing. (Photo: Thinkstock)
 
 
3. Thou Shalt Question Authority. Investing is more about the art of asking and answering the right questions than it is about deciding when to buy and sell. To question authority, you will need to educate yourself, especially on the subject of financials. Press releases are flakes of snow that rain down on investors and melt away, but financials stick around. Although financials can be tampered with, there is always a trail left behind.
is more about the art of asking and answering the right questions than it is about deciding when to buy and sell. To question authority, you will need to educate yourself, especially on the subject of financials. Press releases are flakes of snow that rain down on investors and melt away, but financials stick around. Although financials can be tampered with, there is always a trail left behind.
3. Thou Shalt Question Authority. Investing is more about the art of asking and answering the right questions than it is about deciding when to buy and sell. To question authority, you will need to educate yourself, especially on the subject of financials. Press releases are flakes of snow that rain down on investors and melt away, but financials stick around. Although financials can be tampered with, there is always a trail left behind.
4. Thou Shalt not Follow Sheep There is a lot of available information for investors (much of which is true) but accepting it with an uncritical eye and neglecting to check it yourself is what leads to herd mentality. This includes getting the latest and greatest stock tip from your Uncle George. When people buy cars, they try to find the best value for the lowest price; when people buy stocks, they only see the price and, ironically, gravitate towards rising prices. If you are going to invest, you have to check things for yourself in order to find the true value and get the bargains. This takes more time, and it could even cause you to miss out on early gains, but it will tell you when to stay out or when to sell well before the herd hears the bell.(Photo: Thinkstock)
 
lot of available information for investors (much of which is true) but accepting it with an uncritical eye and neglecting to check it yourself is what leads to herd mentality. This includes getting the latest and greatest stock tip from your Uncle George. When people buy cars, they try to find the best value for the lowest price; when people buy stocks, they only see the price and, ironically, gravitate towards rising prices. If you are going to invest, you have to check things for yourself in order to find the true value and get the bargains. This takes more time, and it could even cause you to miss out on early gains, but it will tell you when to stay out or when to sell well before the herd hears the bell.(Photo: Thinkstock) less
 
 
6. Thou Shalt Be Patient Patience is a virtue for a good reason: It pays for itself. When the market dips, or even when a particular stock dips, there are always investors who panic and sell. Selling should be treated just as seriously as buying. If it is just a bump, ride it out. If there is truly a problem with the stock, take your time as well - you may find a way to use it in a gain-loss transaction that will save you taxes. By the time you hear it, bad news has already settled in - taking your time isn't going to make it much worse.(Photo: Thinkstock)
for a good reason: It pays for itself. When the market dips, or even when a particular stock dips, there are always investors who panic and sell. Selling should be treated just as seriously as buying. If it is just a bump, ride it out. If there is truly a problem with the stock, take your time as well - you may find a way to use it in a gain-loss transaction that will save you taxes. By the time you hear it, bad news has already settled in - taking your time isn't going to make it much worse.(Photo: Thinkstock) less
 
7. Thou Shalt Show Moderation Investing too much is not a problem many people have, but it can happen. It is said that the pain of a loss has twice the emotional strength of the pleasure of a gain. For some people, this results in pulling out of the market prematurely, as mentioned above. For others, losing propels them into successively riskier ventures in an all-or-nothing attempt to win those losses back. Losses are hard to take, but look on the bright side: You can sell a loss to offset a gain in another sector or, if it is in a retirement account, you can use it as a tax write-off. Concentrating your money too much in one area, either by sector, risk level or even keeping it all in the stock market, is a sure way to see more of nothing than all in an all-or-nothing game. (Photo: Thinkstock)
 
9. Thou Shalt not Court or Spurn RiskYou should never put everything you have into futures, but you also shouldn't hold everything in Treasury bills. There is an appropriate level of risk for investors of every age and creed. (Photo: Thinkstock)
 
 
10. Thou Shalt not Make Heroes of Mere Men
There is no perfect investor. Warren Buffett , George Soros and Peter Lynch have all slipped up from time to time. That doesn't stop them from being great investors who are worth studying and learning from. That said, you should never mimic an investing strategy that you do not fully understand.
The Bottom Line: Praying or getting behind the wheel expecting everyone else to follow the same rules you do are both acts of faith. Investing, in contrast, requires practice. To be a good investor, you have to make doubt a part of your creed and make double-checking a ritual. These guidelines should help you on your way. Happy driving. (Photo: Thinkstock)  
 
 
 

Books that is worth the read

I have limited time and would like to enjoy watching some korean dramma .. inbetween I would also love to catch some books that is worth my read.. {reference as short as possible but with direct hit of learning }

Recommending some wonderful books which you can obtain from the National library or books shop around..

By Spencer johnson
1) One min mum
2) One min for your self
3) The precious present
4) Who move my cheese
5) the one minute teacher ( I just bought this book but have yet to read)
more coming ... i am reading these

Anyone have any Spencer Johnson books do let me know if you like to sell 2nd hand
email me at quek_cf@yahoo.com Must be good or excellent condition 


Cheapest way to kick start your K1-K2 child reading

 

What is the cheapest way to train out children to read????  My personal experience ..


Dear all.

I do personally experience this issue that my daughter cannot read at a late stage which is during the end of Nov of her K1 school. I was astonished and upset that my little one cannot read... it is very worrying...I was partically piss off with her teacher which she should at least have informed me earlier.. She did mention that my child was lacked behind other kids ...

After talking to her teacher and my hubby we decide a few routes to the solution..
We have to ensure that she is able to read.. by reading books to her will not help much it will only assist her to depend on us to read for her...

reading to her is only to create her interest to read.. which is more suitable for younger kids.. at her age 6 , she should know how to read simple word etc...

We have few alternative
1) Is to send her last min to " I can read" which will cost us a bomb
and it may not even be suitable for her, or she may reject the teaching

2) Buy the high frequency book from Popular which cost less than SGD$10 DURING the year.
there are flash card behind..

We choose the 2nd option.. If you persist and dicipline yourself and your kid... you will succeed...

I do let my little one tear out the first set of cards...( they are in different colour) the basic ones only..
And i continue to flash to her repeatly for 2 weeks ... follow by playing with her on the card games.. like fishing out the word...after i request her to read out the words that I pick.. how much she score etc and let her win at times :) and turn the card and by memory find the words... etc
 this continue for 2 months..

FYI, i did not really touch on the chapters on the book initially afraid to frighten her... it was after that :) when she is more confident, i started her on the chapters going thru with her..

I realise sometime children misbehave is to " run away from some issue or problem" like my daughter she will create some mischevious but after she handle her problem, she is much well behave.. try it

And She can read now and crazy over books :)