★Focus in class lesson
■Do now show temper
■Do not tell people to keep quiet
■Learn to listen through the noise
■Endure all noise
■First few times may not be able to listen to teacher teaching but after some time it will improve.
●Stop complaining
●Do not say or comments your friends
●Do not throw temper
●Be nice and friendly
●Listen to your friends and keep all comments to yourself
Question from her : her best friend not talking to her.. she is very upset.
My advise is : I told her she is not able to force anyone to talk to her and be her friend.
Solution for her to attempt to ask her what is the issue. Her friend has refuse to tell her and ask her to stop asking. I have told nicole to approach her and tell her.. if she (nicole) has upset her by saying wrong words she will apologise to her. If still refuse to make up , I have told nicole to get on with her life and she has to accept that she may lost this friend.
I have also told her it is common at her age for her peers to have this kind of " friends - no friends "relationships. No point getting upset. She will have to be more conscious of her thinkinh not to drift to the questioning of why ? What happened ? Nicole will need to refocus her thinking.. I have given her examples like thinking about her Sa1, what she want to do during ☆June holidays etc..
I have consoled to her that after some time the feeling will go away.. mean her sadness ..
THIS is life she has to learn... it also happen to adults. .
I told nicole she had best friends around her.. make a guess what is it ???
Answer : her story books.. she love reading. They will never let her down.
If you have any good advise do comments. We defintely can use one or two extra advise.
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